HOW TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP ?

You might have lots of questions to ask and in this article we would be answering few question related to your relationship which are as follow:

How to make other person like you?

How to maintain relationship with boyfriend / girlfriend ?

How to maintain relationship with wife / husband ?

How to keep a relationship strong and healthy ?

Have you been in relationship and started thinking why are you in this relationship?

Are you interested in a person and thinking to be in relationship with person you are interested in?

 So, this article is for you.

You can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. 

– DALE CARNEGIE

When you meet another person for the first time, it is a defining moment of truth in how that relationship will develop. 

If you want people to like you, make them feel good about themselves.

If you want to appear friendly and attractive to others, you must forgo your ego and attention to the other person and his or her particular needs and circumstances. Other people will like you when you make them the focus of attention.

Following are the techniques to make people feel good about themselves:

EMPATHIC STATEMENTS

Empathic statements such as “You look like you are having a bad day” or “You look happy today” let people know that someone is listening to them and cares to some degree about their well-being. This kind of attention makes us feel good about ourselves and more important, predisposes us to like the person who gave us the attention.

NEVER END CONVERSIONS

When you started the conversions with person you are interested in it shows your attention and when you lagging in conversion reflects you are no more interested in talking to that person. Whenever you don’t have much talk about don’t just end the conversations, use the word “So you…”,like “So you like the way things are going today,” or “So you are having a good day.”

ASK FOR A FAVOUR

Everyone in the world needs help, so as do you. Whenever you may ask for a favour you should be aware of the fact, you have also available to do favour if the same person would ask for your favour.

THIRD PARTY APPRAISAL

Whenever you tried to appraise the effort of person , it seems to be like you are stooge that person or you are making fun of that person. I am going to tell best method to praise someone, which is involvement of third party. Apparently , study shows that third party is involved , appraisal hits the target most efficiently.

EXPRESS AFFECTION

This technique can be used by those couple who are planning to get breakup or divorce as per your situation. When relationships are still new,   vibrant and full of love, write letters to each others. Don’t share letters but should frame it on the wall. 

When you will be planning to get separate then you should break the frame , not the relation and look into the letters and read it and rejuvenate your love back.

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